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    Quote Originally Posted by PkmnGreen View Post
    If you're mature enough to handle having a baby, have it.
    You're aware that not all kinds of sex result in babies, right?
    And that ability to "handle having a baby" isn't just about "maturity" but also about where you are in terms of finances and your career/education? And what about people who could take care of kids but just don't want one? Should they never be allowed to have PIV sex ever?
    I think you're being a tad narrow-minded. Oftentimes, maturity shows itself by being realistic about your situation, and waiting until the point when you feel you can give your child the best quality of life, rather than just feeling like you HAVE to have the baby because it's your punishment for screwing up. Parenting should not be a "punishment"; this is the reason we have so many neglected and unloved children in this world. It should be something that people happily choose, when they are ready.
    Also, we have birth control methods out there that are 98-99% effective when used correctly. It's ridiculous to act like babies are an automatic conclusion you need to be prepared for even when you're talking only about the types of sex that might result in them. The likelihood of getting in an accident when you get in your car is probably higher than getting pregnant if you're using the pill and/or a condom correctly, but no one acts like every time you ride a car you are potentially gambling with your life.

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    Personally, I think sex should wait until marriage, but it shouldn't be treated as taboo.
    Not everyone gets married. So we're not allowed to give a little loving to someone we love because we're not married?
    Or are people only in love if they're married?
    ....religion..... :\
    I think by "personally" zakisrage was trying to suggest that while those are the values he feels are correct in his own life, he's not necessarily saying it has to be that way for everyone. That could just be my way of interpreting it but I didn't really see anything like what you suggested in his post.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Goodbye Blue Monday View Post
    The likelihood of getting in an accident when you get in your car is probably higher than getting pregnant if you're using the pill and/or a condom correctly, but no one acts like every time you ride a car you are potentially gambling with your life.
    I just had to quote this cause it made me laugh. Just imagine every time you get in a car people are screaming in terror the whole car ride.

    So I'm not derailing this topic too much, I'll elaborate on my original post. Golden Rule: If it's consensual, it's okay. Two people, three people, four people, a whole group of people, straight, gay, lesbian, non-penetration, PIV, anal, oral, BDSM, aggressive, passionate, fast, slow, I don't care! As long as everyone involved is okay, then that is alright by me.

    If you want to have sex for a career, that's absolutely fine by me too. What I'm not fine with are people who kidnap women and young girls and FORCE THEM to have sex for money so they can take it for themselves. (AKA Pimps) If a person wants to be a porn star, or a prostitute, it should be their decision. But then as for their customers, I feel they should be single, as I still consider it cheating. But again, that's up to the couple. If a couple are in an open relationship, meaning they don't mind if they other sleeps around, then that's their deal. If you want to have casual sex, that's okay. It'd be best to use protection though.

    tl;dr As long as it's completely consensual, it's alright by me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jo The Marten View Post
    If you want to have sex for a career, that's absolutely fine by me too. What I'm not fine with are people who kidnap women and young girls and FORCE THEM to have sex for money so they can take it for themselves. (AKA Pimps) If a person wants to be a porn star, or a prostitute, it should be their decision. But then as for their customers, I feel they should be single, as I still consider it cheating. But again, that's up to the couple. If a couple are in an open relationship, meaning they don't mind if they other sleeps around, then that's their deal. If you want to have casual sex, that's okay. It'd be best to use protection though.
    One thing I really like is how some countries now are making it illegal to be a pimp without making it illegal to be a prostitute. To me, this sounds like a great way to both cut down on sex-trafficking and also make it easier for prostitutes to report abuse (a sad side-effect of making prostitution completely illegal is giving prostitutes no way to report abuse by pimps or johns without incriminating themselves).
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    My personal belief is that if you are at a mature enough age and you truly love the other person, sex is perfectly okay. I don't think you should have to wait until marriage to have sex, though if that's what you believe of course that's fine, I just don't think it's a must to wait until you're married because as long as you and the other person love each other, why should it be a problem? It's a really big misconception that sex is purely to have children, which is why it seems a lot of people are so dead set against pre-marital sex, but I don't see it that way and think you should be able to have sex before you're married as long as you're careful.
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    If you want to have sex for a career, that's absolutely fine by me too. What I'm not fine with are people who kidnap women and young girls and FORCE THEM to have sex for money so they can take it for themselves. (AKA Pimps) If a person wants to be a porn star, or a prostitute, it should be their decision. But then as for their customers, I feel they should be single, as I still consider it cheating. But again, that's up to the couple. If a couple are in an open relationship, meaning they don't mind if they other sleeps around, then that's their deal. If you want to have casual sex, that's okay. It'd be best to use protection though.
    One thing I really like is how some countries now are making it illegal to be a pimp without making it illegal to be a prostitute. To me, this sounds like a great way to both cut down on sex-trafficking and also make it easier for prostitutes to report abuse (a sad side-effect of making prostitution completely illegal is giving prostitutes no way to report abuse by pimps or johns without incriminating themselves).
    They had a story about prostitution on Penn & Teller's Bullshit, and it was so sad to hear about all the girls abducted by pimps or johns, and all the self-employed prostitutes and escorts that had been raped (yes people, rape is still rape even if they're a prostitute.) but they couldn't tell the cops because, well they're a prostitute. It's so sad and unfair. :/

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    I don't classify sex as just...penetration. That's just...revolting. If sex were just that, then yeah, wait until you want a child. I think a lot of factors make up "sex", not just penetration. And I also think it can be an intimate experience between two people. But that's just me.
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    If you want to sleep around, go for it. If you want to save yourself for marriage, go for it. I stand neutral because I don't care what you do with your body. The only thing that irritates me are virgins who think they are better/have more 'self respect' than promiscuous people or people who have had sex and another thing that irritates me are promiscuous people who bash on virgins or those who don't have sex a lot by thinking they are 'a loser who can't get any'. If you want to do it as a career, go for it. It's all good. As long as it's consensual, sex is awesome and so is no sex (depending on where you stand)
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    LOL

    I think that it is cool as long as its consensual and you use protection.

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    I think that sex is okay. Yes, even casual sex.

    I myself am still a virgin for many reasons, but that is because I know that I am not ready for sex. Sex should only be had if you are mature enough to deal with the consequences. Whether it be pregnancy, disease, even mental strain, I won't judge you if you choose to take these risks. But the point is that you have to accept these risks, and you can't just pretend like they can't happen to you. Being mature means that you are willing to take the steps to prevent, or deal with everything that sex could potentially bring.

    The problem is, most people who have sex all the time don't realize this.
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    If it's safe, legal, and consensual, then alrighty. Other peoples' sex lives are not my business.

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    I don't really mind sex. It's natural, and I'm pretty sure almost everyone is bound to have it or learn about it sometime in their life. I say, just do it when you feel it's right. Do it with the person you really love. And use protection. That's all I really have to say about it. Unless there's something extremely important I missed.

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    I feel that it should not be a taboo. If we made sex less of a taboo rape victims might be more willing to seek help. As long as you and your partner know you both don't have STDS and use birth control (assuming you are not trying to have children) I don't see the big deal.
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    Practice safe and all should work out naturally.

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    I've had a lot of different views on sex over the years. In past relationships, I've been very reluctant about it. And I don't think it's a bad thing to be cautious about, I just don't think you have to wait until marriage to have sex, I mean seriously... if you're in a stable relationship, and you have sex with your bf/gf it shouldn't be a big deal. I think society is starting to become more liberal about sex before marriage and that's a good thing IMO. It shouldn't be a taboo.

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    Having sex is no problem if you love that person and if you do it safe ofcourse (unless you want babies). The problem nowadays is that young boys don't always know how to do it the nice way, because they watched porn and think that's real. Porn is a different way of sex and it's not always realistic. (the women aren't always treated that well too) I am sure that not much girls like to swallow sperm, or am I wrong?

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