A little over a month ago a guy I was dating took me to Disney. I had a great time then the next day he messages me on Facebook telling me I'm not a gentleman that his feelings for me were short term and that he wanted nothing to do with me. It hurt badly, and I've been hurting a lot since. I tell myself I'm over him, but I don't feel like I am. I just wish that I could find a guy who loves being around me, someone who is glad that I'm theirs, but basically my rock. Some guys are just mean. My straight friends tell me women are the same way though. I find them to be nicer most of the time, but I have no attraction to them of course.