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    Things aren't going so well for me as my Only Surviving Grandpa is near his end any help/support from anyone here will be greatly appreciated

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    I'm not great with advice on death because my view on death is different than most people's, but here goes. No one is ever truly gone. They will live on through you. Your memories keep them alive. Never forget them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkBlastoise27 View Post
    Things aren't going so well for me as my Only Surviving Grandpa is near his end any help/support from anyone here will be greatly appreciated
    I lost my Grandma a few months ago and I've been going through a pretty rough time ever since, so I know how you feel. My best advice is to make the most of the rest of his life and see him as much as you can. Try and forget the fact that he is near his end and just focus on making the rest of his life as good as possible. As I said my Grandma suddenly died a few months ago from cancer, but hopefully you have the time to go back and see him before he dies.

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    All I can say is: focus on the good. Make sure to visit him often to make his last days as happy as you can, even if that might sound like a strange concept. As Sutekh said, don't focus on the fact that he's nearing the end of his life, try and remind him of everything he's accomplished in his life, and what good things have happened to him. Again, he isn't really ever going to leave, as long as you remember him and all he did then he can never truly be dead.
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    Well it finally happened guess things are going to be harder for me here I will always remember the good times I had with him

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkBlastoise27 View Post
    Well it finally happened guess things are going to be harder for me here I will always remember the good times I had with him
    I know your pain (believe it or not). When my relative passed away, you're human so you cry, but thankfully I was thankful I gotta met her. Life is short live it to the fullest, don't sit around and sulk. Go chase your dream, do whatever you want. Just know wherever he is right now he would be proud. Cherish the time, cherish the memories. Over time you can look back at those and be happy, happy for the time you spent with him.

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    I'm off tomorrow for the Funeral it won't be a good experience for me

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    I know you're pain man, I lost my mom when I was only 8. It was so hard not to cry and I did several times. I say try to hold it, but if you must that's fine. But remember you're grandpa is there in spirit all the time , looking at you and happy for any thing you achieve. As Booster Gold said, cherish that times you've had together and all the fond memories. I'm sure he's proud of you and always will be. I'll be keep you, your family and your grandpa in my thoughts.

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    Had the Funeral today it was like you would expect at one full of me doing ing and a lot of it

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