Originally Posted by
Vhazhiphor
Gee, I suddenly feel so alone and outnumbered.
As you can maybe tell by my Giovanni here on the left, I do enjoy me some tobacco. I used to hate smoking. My dad smoked for almost his entire life. He was trying to cut down when he died, though, mostly due to his high blood pressure. I got my mother to quit smoking when I was only a few years old, although she says now she wanted to quit anyway. And I had no interest in it until fairly recently. Not long after I took it up the stupid government banned smoking in public places. Figures.
While I prefer to smoke cigars and pipes, since I can't just get them at the local gas station down here, I'll smoke cigarettes when I have the money for it, but I won't go out of my way to get them. Maybe it's just me, or maybe it's that I've only been smoking for about three years, but I don't feel like I'm addicted. I know - everyone says that. But I genuinely don't. There's no cravings, no more than I'd get for a slice of pizza, anyway. I can and have gone weeks without a puff, then just take it right back up. It's never caused me to cough, either. Not sure how relevant that is, I just find it odd.
Anyhow, the way I see it, one should live and let live. I smoke tobacco for the same reason I drink alcohol - because I enjoy it (and I could get hit by a bus tomorrow, you never know). Not to get buzzed (or drunk, as the case may be), but just to enjoy a stogie with a glass of scotch, or have a bowl of chocolate flavored tobacco with my coffee in the morning. After all, I should get to choose what I stuff into myself without others constantly berating me for it, and/or telling me I should stop. If I'm smoking, say, at the park, on a bench all by my lonesome, and somebody near me is bothered by this, they could just tell me that my smoking is inconveniencing them, and if they're nice about it, I'll put the thing out. No big deal. But if someone starts fake-coughing, waving their hands around, or citing studies (that they probably haven't read, while we're at it), just generally being a... not-nice... person... about it, I will not feel very inclined to oblige them.
Not to mention how idiotic some of these smoking bans and laws can be. No smoking in restaurants - we always had a smoking and non-smoking section for that, but fine. I can understand it. But at a bar? At a tobacco store? Are you serious? And it's not just about being able to smoke or not - the owner of the establishment often has no say. The person that pays for and runs the place can't decide if he or she wants customers to be able to smoke or not.
I also wonder how people would react if they started putting pictures of car crashes and cirrhotic livers on cases of beer.
Personally, I won't go out of my way to bother anyone with my pastime. But I don't appreciate being bothered about it, either. And, while I admit this may be just from a smoker's perspective- it feels like there's this hatred of smoking and smokers going around nowadays, and it's accepted and even lauded, and it doesn't sit right with me.