Oh, I've talked to him before. A few times in the last class, and he was starting to warm up to me towards the end. Then Summer happened. I couldn't tell if he was quiet, but friendly or liked me, and was shy.
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Oh, I've talked to him before. A few times in the last class, and he was starting to warm up to me towards the end. Then Summer happened. I couldn't tell if he was quiet, but friendly or liked me, and was shy.
Well, just keep talking to him. But you know, don't force yourself onto him. Just be natural, and let him know that you'd like to become better acquainted.
Yeah, that's what I'm trying to do. I'd have asked him to lunch already if I wasn't so shy.
Sounds like you already know what to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lylian
I encourage you to take a chance and do it.
Not really, these are just my ideas. Those don't always work the way I want.
Hm yes we don't know how things turn out. And we don't know other people's true feelings. Unless you're psychic. But like what Jo the Marten said, keep on keeping on! If you trust in your ideas, you gain more hope, and there'll be a greater chance you'll be able to build a strong relationship with him. And it's not only you; a bunch of other people already struggled with what you're struggling with now! Dont worry I'll be praying for you ;) I want you to be happyQuote:
Originally Posted by Lylian
Hmm, pray, I'll let you know if that works. Anyway, I want me to be happy too.
He's mostly quiet around me, if not, is nice to talk to. It's not always easy to do in class sometimes.
Hey if you're studying, that isn't a good time to socialize with him. It's not a good time for him, either. Communicate during free time. Your studies are more important than anything else goin on in school! :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Lylian
Quiet people are hard to deal with. I'm not offending your guy, it's just that it's me, too. But we eventually break our quietness when we socialize :)
Not so much studying, just being busy in class. And he's quieter around me than our classmates. A lot less than the last class. (Sometimes going to different parts of the classroom than I'm in, but he does wander too.)
So, I really have no idea.
If he's quiet around you I'm assuming he's too embarrassed to be seen by you because he likes you (if he's shy or something) or maybe he thinks you're weird. (Not to offend you, I'm just saying that it can happen.) it's up to you to choose what you think and trust in that choice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lylian
I am weird, but it's pretty obvious. He is more quiet around me (since the last class.)
Okay, I'm not the best advice giver but I've got a bit of a problem that I don't feel like I can discuss with my friends. So, I guess I'm asking you guys.
See, there's this really cute girl who's in a few of my classes, and we go to the same room in some of our study periods. The thing is, she's new to the school, so I don't know her. And... I don't even know where to begin with it. I've never talked to a girl simply because they're cute before. Basically, how should I break the ice, and how do I make sure I make a good first impression?
oh god i feel silly doing this
Hehe don't feel bad about sharing. I'm pretty sure everyone else that posted on this thread were nervous about sharing it with the whole BMGf community :) and I understand about your friends; sometimes friends and families are a bit awkward to talk about this subject.Quote:
Originally Posted by Metabee
But I understand that she's new to the school and that you feel a bit nervous to talk to her. Don't worry, everyone has that feeling, even the most sociable ones. But since she's new to the school, talk to her like you would talk to anyone that's new to your school. If she talks to you in like a monotone or bad tone or something, don't make a big deal out of it. But I'm pretty sure she would like to make new friends, whether they're female or male. Just be nice with her and don't be so frustrated with your mistakes. It's better to start acting like a friend rather than an admirer.
Well, um... I kinda like the girl I sit next to in Algebra, but I'm not sure how to approach her. What should I do?
I think you should, like, gain confidence in speaking with new people...I don't know. I sort of need more details like how she is and how you're like?Quote:
Originally Posted by Procyon