Thread: How would somebody cope with being single forever?

Originally Posted by woddfellow2

That is a myth. Even if I could get anyone I wanted, I would still refuse it.

I wholeheartedly agree.

There are certain careers where it's hard to have a married life. Being a flight attendant is a good example. A lot of flight attendants don't get married because they're too busy working on planes travelling the world's skies. One of my friends has an aunt who is a flight attendant. She's 44 and has never been married. (Actually, a lot of these jobs that involve globe-trotting are kinda like this. Makes sense that Lara Croft never has a love interest.)

By getting a cat.

Just get really involved in your work.

That reminds me, I need a cat again. Since I pretty much will be single forever.

I'd say get a job or hobby he's passionate about, and be social with others. Maybe start watching an awesome TV show....

The Internet is the answer to everything, including this.

To be honest, it depends on how you look at life. Some are okay without a relationship, but if you really want to find love, keep on searching until you find "the one."

Originally Posted by Tetrahedron

Personally, as a woman, I've admittedly been in a relationship or two, but there's a part of me that doesn't mind the idea of being single for awhile (or even for the rest of my life) as long as I can do what I love which is studying history, teaching it, and being social and having fun (sometimes). I don't need to have a lover, in fact, for the moment, I'd rather not have one. I know love and marriage and all those things are good and wonderful but right now I'm just not interested. :)

I don't mind being single myself either. I met some guys and worked with them, but none have sparked my interest. Sure, being in a relationship is great, but I find happiness persuing what I love. That's all that matters to me right now.

Personally I just accept the fact that I will most likely never find someone and live with it. Sure it hurts at first but you get used to it. For those unwilling to do that you can enjoy your hobbies and pursue new interests.