Thread: Apathy for Love, and the Far Off Decision

I feel, obviously, a tad apathetic towards "love" and relationships. I never had much luck with relationships, but maybe I'm just overthinking things.

Is it smart to keep looking for love online, when you can't find love locally? =/

Originally Posted by Toxicious

Is it smart to keep looking for love online, when you can't find love locally? =/

I would say to the extent that if you're not ready for an in-person relationship, you're not ready for an online one. But not if it's simply expanding your dating pool.

What do you mean by being "apathetic" toward it? Like, you don't care if you have a relationship or not, or you're frustrated with your lack of luck with it? It sounds like the latter and I don't know if I'd describe that as "apathy."

I suppose "apathy" isn't the right word for it after all. I would say the latter as well. =/

Don't get too frustrated. I know it's hard to hear, but you will eventually find someone. As you get older, your social group consists more and more of people like you, and also people mature and become better partners (and you do, too).

Here's something that will hopefully make you feel better:
5 Reasons Life Actually Does Get Better | Cracked.com

Originally Posted by Goodbye Blue Monday

Don't get too frustrated. I know it's hard to hear, but you will eventually find someone. As you get older, your social group consists more and more of people like you, and also people mature and become better partners (and you do, too).

Here's something that will hopefully make you feel better:
5 Reasons Life Actually Does Get Better | Cracked.com

Thank you. I needed something like this. Being cynical ruins your life. I should know.

Here's another happy thing I found if it helps:
13 Simple Steps To Get You Through A Rough Day

Also being cynical isn't all bad, as long as you don't have too much of it. You can be overly optimistic, too, like when someone is trusting of a person whom they shouldn't trust. It's about maintaing a balance.

Originally Posted by Goodbye Blue Monday

Here's another happy thing I found if it helps:
13 Simple Steps To Get You Through A Rough Day

Also being cynical isn't all bad, as long as you don't have too much of it. You can be overly optimistic, too, like when someone is trusting of a person whom they shouldn't trust. It's about maintaing a balance.

This made me lol. Thanks.

I'll try to see the light in life.