This is wrong, getting infracted for someone using a word that someone else doesn't like. You're basically limiting free-speech on a forum that allows it in a sense. Just because some get mad at a word doesn't mean the rest have to suffer for their viewpoint, in my opinion you're forcing their viewpoint on us and last I checked heterosexuals are the majority. What words will be banned next? Black for favor of African-American? This is just the case of some people being overly-sensitive and being intolerant of my viewpoint.
If you guys infracted for someone calling someone gay in a derogatory manner then I feel it is justified if they've been warned. To stop the word from being used for the sake of it is wrong. As someone else said, I don't mad when someone uses the word negro or nigger, neither should those of the other communities. They need to grow up.