Short answer, No. I won't let other people change the way I feel about Pokemon just because I don't like how they like (or don't Like) something or other about Pokemon.
What other people think or feel about something in Pokemon doesn't effect the way I feel about it one way or another.
The only thing that I have against fans is when they make threads like this one. But what am I to do. Hater are Gonna Hate.
Btw, I happen to Love Gardevoir. What other people think about her or what other people do about it is on them.
Is she very feminine? Certainly.
Do I think she's Beautiful? Hell yes.
Am I attracted to her? As much as any man who's attracted to a Beautiful, Feminine image, although my attraction has its limit (she has no lips being one reason.)
That isn't to say I don't enjoy the decent artwork done of her. If it's good, I don't care much for it's content. Good art is it's own worth.