AlphaMouse

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, 5th February 2013 at 01:16 AM (364 Views)

So, I am in a deep predicament.

I am in love, but with two women.

One of them, unsurprisingly, is my girlfriend, who I've been going out with for the grand total of a month and a week (celibately). She's an old friend from my previous school who I had a crush on for a while and finally got the guts to ask out. I see her very rarely as she goes to a boarding school fifty miles from mine.

The other, I met on Saturday at a social (basically an event where kids from boarding schools get together and talk awkwardly and have a disco occasionally). She's already admitted, both to my face and to other people, that she likes me back. She also knows that I have a girlfriend, but that I want to go out with her too.

They're both amazing people and both give me different things in life. If I had to choose between them I'd choose the girlfriend anyday, but I don't want to have to make that choice.

So, there we have it, I am screwed and need your help.

AlphaMouse

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Contrary - 5th February 2013 01:18 AM
Are you sure this new girl isn't just some infatuation?
AlphaMouse - 5th February 2013 01:39 AM
Originally Posted by Karamazov

Are you sure this new girl isn't just some infatuation?

It's a fair point, and I'm not entirely sure yet. I guess we'll find out.
Contrary - 5th February 2013 01:41 AM
Yeah. I think it's best to wait and see how you really feel before making any rash decisions. :)

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33Whimsicott33 - 5th February 2013 09:27 AM
Play Catherine.
Hurricane Kishore - 5th February 2013 11:42 AM
You 2 timer !
Put yourself in your current Girl-friend's place .
Imagine that your being a good Boy-friend but one day she say that the guy she crushing on before meeting you has return her feeling so she will be DAMPING you for that guy .
How Do you will feel after that ?
So Don't damp you current girl-friend unless you have much better reason then meeting a better girl.
If You don't get that much then you aren't ready to have a Girl-friend yet !

Updated 5th February 2013 at 12:12 PM by Hurricane Kishore
TheMissingno. - 5th February 2013 12:33 PM
If I had to choose between them I'd choose the girlfriend anyday, but I don't want to have to make that choice.

It sounds to me like you already have.

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Zeb - 5th February 2013 03:31 PM
Originally Posted by Hurricane Kishore

You 2 timer !
Put yourself in your current Girl-friend's place .
Imagine that your being a good Boy-friend but one day she say that the guy she crushing on before meeting you has return her feeling so she will be DAMPING you for that guy .
How Do you will feel after that ?
So Don't damp you current girl-friend unless you have much better reason then meeting a better girl.
If You don't get that much then you aren't ready to have a Girl-friend yet !

Good advice.
Pokemaster97 - 5th February 2013 09:29 PM
I'd say stay with your current Girlfriend. I mean, you haven't even known this new girl for a week. I honestly I don't see how people can fall "in love" that quickly, take your time and don't do anything rash that you'll regret. It'd really hurt your girlfriend if you dumped her for a girl you met a couple of days ago in my opinion, but it's up to you in the end of the day. Best of luck bro :)
AlphaMouse - 6th February 2013 01:40 AM
Originally Posted by Hurricane Kishore

You 2 timer !
Put yourself in your current Girl-friend's place .
Imagine that your being a good Boy-friend but one day she say that the guy she crushing on before meeting you has return her feeling so she will be DAMPING you for that guy .
How Do you will feel after that ?
So Don't damp you current girl-friend unless you have much better reason then meeting a better girl.
If You don't get that much then you aren't ready to have a Girl-friend yet !

Do you think I don't feel guilty about this? I can't control my emotions, and I'm trying really hard not to upset anyone. I know how she'd feel because it's happened to me before, and that's why it's so frustrating.
~~Luminosity~~ - 6th February 2013 02:06 AM
[QUOTE][B]If I had to choose between them I'd choose the girlfriend anyday[/B], but I don't want to have to make that choice.[/QUOTE]
Unless you are able to convince both girls to allow you to date them at the same time (unlikely), you are going to have to choose. Such is life, so based off of the bolded part, I say stick with your girlfriend and let the other go.

Updated 6th February 2013 at 02:16 AM by Luminosity
Hurricane Kishore - 6th February 2013 02:39 AM
Originally Posted by AlphaMouse

Do you think I don't feel guilty about this? I can't control my emotions, and I'm trying really hard not to upset anyone. I know how she'd feel because it's happened to me before, and that's why it's so frustrating.

Well , Control your emotion !
Having a girl-friend isn't about having fun.
You have to make sacrifice and make hard but fair choice's too .