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I just lost a friend...

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by , 12th December 2013 at 06:13 PM (1344 Views)
No, my friend didn't die. It's just that...one of my friends is not my friend anymore.

This friend's name was Danny. I used to play games with him. We used to play Super Smash Bros. Brawl and Mario Kart. He didn't like Pokemon, so we didn't play that. But we always used to have a good time. And he was very nice to all of my autistic friends - even Ashley. And he was a very good cook.

My friend is now dating some cheap-looking blonde named Britni (yes, that's how she spells it). Not only does she have a stupid name, she dresses way too revealingly. She also loves everything girly and hates video games, and she's a diva. Now Danny is spending most of his time with Bitchni. Danny thinks she's the girl for him, and I think she's just some cheap-looking little parasite. Even worse, Danny won't dump her. So on Saturday, I called him up and told him about it. We had a bit of an argument, and then Danny told me that we weren't friends anymore.

My last words to him were "have fun with your girlfriend".

I really miss Danny. I wish we could be friends again. I talked to Gabby about it, and she told me to move on. I guess I will.

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  1. Johtohfiller's Avatar
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    I say don't give up on him. Maybe he'll come back, maybe he won't, but if you leave the door open to him you're being the better man.
  2. kyogre545's Avatar
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    I agree about not liking people like that girl, but it's his life. If he wants to date someone like her, let him do that. He'll learn how bad of a friend he is being(and his bad choice in girls) soon.
  3. Jolene's Avatar
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    Live and let live. Have patience and when that trashy girl makes his life a living hell, just be there waiting with your "I told you so" banner. Add balloons and confetti to make him feel even worse.
  4. Xita's Avatar
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    I know the feeling, but you may just have to move on. It'll be tough, but you'll get through it and make new friends that may be even better than the one you were with before. Good luck.
  5. Hoopa's Avatar
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    Sooner or later he'll come back to you with a sob story about him being dumped
  6. Silverwynde's Avatar
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    Try and move on but do leave the door open. If this girl is as bad as you say, she'll drain him dry and dump him. He'll need a friend afterward and you could be there to help.

    Good luck.
  7. FireBlader15's Avatar
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    Hey I feel sorry for you but every time you loose a friend you'll make a new one.
  8. Oswin's Avatar
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    So he gets a girlfriend and because you don't like her you can't be friends with him anymore...? Also no offence but you sound kinda jealous.
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  9. The Outrage's Avatar
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    I agree with @Oswin, and I have trouble understanding why anyone is defending you. From your account, your problem with her is because she has a "dumb name", dresses in a way you don't approve of, and likes different things than you do. You call her a diva and a cheap parasite, but you really don't give any concrete examples of this, so from my perspective as a reader,I can't discern whether this is true or simply childish name-calling (doesn't help that you call her "Bitchini").

    When you called Danny, was the focus of your conversation about how you think his girlfriend is a parasitic diva with a dumb name, or was the focus about him neglecting his friendships? If it was the latter and he broke things off, then move on since he's not worth it. If it was the former, then I don't understand the sob story. I mean, there's a lot of people who talk about how their friends are in toxic relationships and can actually articulate it, but from the sound of it, you simply don't like her. I mean your complaints aren't even how she's bad for Danny--its "she doesn't like the things Danny and I liked together" and "Danny's spending more time with her than with me". I know I'm sounding harsh, but that's how you're coming off.
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    Updated 13th December 2013 at 01:04 AM by The Outrage
  10. Agent Gryphon's Avatar
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    I am sorry, because a girl dresses a way you don't like, and has a different spelled name, you don't like her? I agree with the above two.

    I am sorry, but is it not okay to judge someone just because they look like a plastic girl just as it's not okay to judge someone who's nerdy or geeky or obsese or whatever. To be honest, I would have gotten angry if I had been your friend too. What was her personality like? Was she actually nice to people or acted like a bitch? Was she mean or nice?

    Don't judge someone because of their looks, or better yet don't judge a book by it's cover, it's the personality that should be decided. With the information you have given, it just comes off jealously and wanting him all to yourself (And think, I am going based off what you wrote, per I am deciding on way you worded it that you are being jealous, rather then getting the full story, which is exactly what you are doing with this girl. I am actually interested in the full story though, what is it that makes her a bitch? Horrible personality?)
  11. White Yoshi's Avatar
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    I do kinda agree with the other 3.

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