I just don't know what to do anymore...
by, 24th October 2013 at 07:02 PM (908 Views)
I have a rather awkward dilemma on my hands here; it's my first year of high school, and a month ago,a girl who I have for two of my four classes asked me out, not having dated before, I said yes because I found her pretty and to be honest I liked talking to her. A week in, learn she as Aspergers, same thing I have, and she was taunted a lot in Junior High. I want to help her out with making friends and stuff, but every time I give her advice, she says she can't do it and is too scared. This evening, I guess I god fed up with her beating herself up over it and just went out and addressed the problem and how she could fix it, but then she said that she didn't want me telling her what to do. This is what's tearing me up right now, because if I just give up and let her go on like this, I know it won't end well, but I'm not sure I can go on with her much longer in the current state, and if I break up with her, I'm afraid I'll really hurt her, and then I'll just end up hating myself for doing it. I want to let her try and figure it out for herself, but she says shes been like this for her whole life, so I doubt she'll be able to manage it alone, I know I couldn't.
I'm the only one of my friends who's had a serious girlfriend, and I have nowhere to turn, so please, what the hell do I do?
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