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I really need Advice

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N's Queen Julie
, 10th January 2012 at 01:51 PM (180 Views)
Ok guys, S.O.S.! I need help with....a problem. On a different website, I have a RP right? Well this one guy (lets call him Adam) keeps pushing around everyone. Adam gets mad if someone corrects him, or tries to calm him down. Expecially to this other guy (lets call him Davis). Adam keeps saying Davis is being to controling and trying to be too perfect on perpous to out-show everyone on the rp. Davis isn't even trying to do that, and I can tell. But Adam is my friend (so is Davis) and I don't want to tick him off, but I know I need to put my foot down. So do you think this is a 'fair' message to post on the rp?

Adam-

Look Adam, I know you may think Davis is trying to be mean, but he's not. He's just trying to keep things calm. I really think you need to calm down, no one's trying to be mean to any one here (expecially me). I'm really glad you're staying to help me, but the rest of these guys don't deserve to be gotten mad at because they're trying to calm you down. If your gonna yell at someone, at least yell at me. I'm the GM of this RP so I'm the one who created it, the one who made the RP everyone's getting mad on. A lot of my friends keep telling me I have to tell you this, that I need to be respected as the GM, but I've held back trying not to get you mad, because I don't like making my friends mad. But I know people who take advantage of my 'kindness' and I don't like it. I'm not saying you do, but if I don't say something people will see that I didn't and think they can push me around. I hope you don't take any of this to heart and don't get mad at me, but I had to do it. I'm sorry.

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Is that fair to post? Or should I PM it to him? Or is it too harsh?

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  1. Contrary's Avatar
    I think that's pretty fair. But maybe it should be in a PM, since it seems to be of a more private nature.
  2. Master Mew's Avatar
    Seems fair. Should be in a PM, though, a public scolding generally makes things worse.

    Also, "Come on kids, let's use our inside voices," might get the point across.
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  3. N's Queen Julie's Avatar
    @Karamazov It was a PM.

    @Master Mew

    It was a PM.

    I was too harsh. Adam told Davis that he needed to shut up, as if he didn't have as much rights to talk. I went off on him (still in PM)
  4. Master Mew's Avatar
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    "Adam" may have been upset by what you said, but if you said what you listed above, you were not "too harsh." Adam is being juvenile.

    When push comes to shove, and I'm at a loss for how to resolve a conflict, here's what I say: "It's just a game, it's meant to be fun and enjoyable for everyone involved. If you aren't having fun, you should probably stop playing. And if you are having fun, and it's not worth quitting over, then let it go."
  5. N's Queen Julie's Avatar
    @Master Mew

    That's what 'Davis' was saying.

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