Relationship change on Facebook
by, 31st August 2014 at 03:34 PM (396 Views)
No, not mine, never mine. This is actually about that relationship change thing on Facebook, where everyone on your facebook can see it. Now what I am about to post, is probably going to make me look bad, but please don't think I am a terrible person, I am happy for these people.
So today, actually just after waking up and getting on my computer, I saw a friend's relationship change on Facebook, who is in a relationship with a girl I liked (I actually asked her two weeks out before he did, actually I even figured it out when she said she liked someone, it was a bit too obvious on both ends once I thought about it, so I do find it cute, and I am happy for them, I will say that). but I am still moving on from that, because I really, really did like her. So, not something I cared to actually see on Facebook (I really hope they don't get married in six months, I say this because I know two others who had just met, and then six months later got married, then again these two have known each other for long as I have known the girl too)
I thought Facebook had done away with this, that they turned off the got into a relationship (Engaged and Married was still there), and they got rid of end of relationship, or did they just do this for end of relationship? Very odd in a way if they did.
I can't obviously post this on Facebook since I will either hurt or piss them off, and I don't want them to feel like that, I still consider them friends, especially the girl (I know her better then the guy, but he's helped me with some stuff, ironically also with a past relationship with him, I figured out he also liked that girl before he had asked her out...). So I guess I am just saying, I wish Facebook would hide the whole In a relationship stuff. No one really wants to see that in their face soon as they wake up.
I would deactivate my Facebook, but it seems it has become too essential and mandatory to even try (I have been thinking about deactivating for a while actually), see I got my church's Young adult leadership team, so I need updates from that, apparently if I want my shift change on the same church's cafe I volunteer I have, it has to be done on the FB group, then there's my small group, and Boost the name of my church's nighttime service. And any events that happen, I think it's official, Facebook is mandatory and no one texts, calls or sends invitations anymore.
Well, I am done for blogging, I hope I am not hated for this post. Please understand I do like and accept both of my friends, I am happy for them, it's just a bit of a annoyance to wake up too, it's like we know you are in a relationship, no need for it to be told on Facebook. I know some people get angry when they think a guy feels "entitled" to a girl liking him or whatever, but this is not what it's about. Just thought I make this clear. (The reasons for me wanting to deactivate, are actually results of other things). I just need a place to blog for a moment.
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